Noob question on syncing

[1kwik72]

I have probably a stupid question but if someone can point me in the right direction I would be apreciative. I have had my 700wx for a while now and now the wife decided she would like to consolodate her old PDA (sony clie)and get a new smartphone. I currently sync with my home PC using activesync and outlook 2003 for my contacts calendar notes etc. I have my AOL and a work email that is pop3 set up on it. The wife uses Lotus notes at her workplace for email and calendar she also uses a home AOL email. My question is is there a way if I get her a smartphone to continue to sync my phone as I have, have her also sync on the home PC for personal contacts and still get her work email and calendar? I am not really sure how to make it all work. From what I have read I guess the 700 can sync with lotus notes with a 3rd party program. Other than that anyone out there that can give me some advice?

Thanks
Craig